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Dead Bedrooms Part 2: We Coach Another Couple Through Resuscitating Their Sex...

“We’re just not having sex anymore…” If you’ve found yourself uttering (or even just thinking) this line, you’re not alone. So many couples will experience a loss of not just their sex life but...

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Everything You’re Getting Wrong About Intercourse (And How To Get It Right)

We all feel like we’re supposed to just be naturally good at intercourse, but there are so many dynamics that can trip us up! What positions are best? How do you MOVE during it? What do you do if one...

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Am I The Asshole? The Holiday Edition

The first time we did Am I The Asshole it was a major success, so we knew we had to bring it back for a part two! In this special holiday edition, we’ve got more fiery takes on your craziest seasonal...

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The Top 10 Pillow Talks Podcast Moments of 2023

2023 has been one wild ride! This podcast — all 136 episodes so far — has been a major part of our year, so what better way to celebrate than counting down our top 10 moments from Pillow Talks in 2023?...

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Xander Got A Vasectomy!

Xander got a vasectomy! By popular demand, we’re walking you through the entire process – how and why we decided to go this route, finding the right doctor, the procedure itself (including the truth...

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Your Funniest Foreplay Fails

We asked you to share your funniest foreplay fails, and you REALLY delivered! Today we’re sharing the dangers of jalapeños, why you shouldn’t chew gum during oral, and some bad Cosmo advice about...

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Xander’s Vasectomy Part 2: Answering Your Questions About Pain, Performance,...

Snip snap! We’re back with part 2 of Xander’s vasectomy journey. (Start with part 1 if you want to hear his story.) This time we’re answering all your questions about the process from start to finish...

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What Your Sex Personality Type Says About You In The Bedroom

You might already know that you’re a 3 on the Enneagram, a generator in human design, or an ENTJ in Myers–Briggs. But do you know your personality type in the bedroom? Today we’re breaking down our Sex...

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How To Get Your Partner To Be More Romantic

79% of our community members want their partners to be more romantic. Romance seems to come so easy at the beginning of a relationship, but feels so much harder to sustain long-term! In this episode,...

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Are You Lazy In Bed? Here’s What Your Partner Says…

Today we’re asking a tough question… Are you lazy in bed? And an even harder one… Would your partner say you’re lazy during sex? In this episode, we’re breaking down the specific things you’re doing...

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The Body Confidence Episode – How To Feel Good In Your Skin During Sex

Today, we’re tackling a huge issue that so many people can relate to… feeling uncomfortable in your own skin during sex. We’re diving into the specific things that make you the most self-conscious, and...

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We’re In Couples Therapy

Surprise! We’re in couples therapy. We sat down and recorded one of our most vulnerable episodes yet all about why we’re in therapy and how it’s going. We talked about what to look for in a potential...

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What Your Partner Secretly Wishes You’d Stop Doing In The Bedroom

Have you ever wondered what your partner REALLY thinks about your performance in the bedroom? Well, it turns out there are a few things they secretly wish you’d stop doing… We turned to Instagram and...

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Are You Nagging? Or Is Your Partner Being Childish?

75% of people say that nagging is an issue in their relationship. So we thought it was time we gave our take on this controversial topic. We’re talking about the differences between nagging, reminding,...

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Your Sexual Fantasies Revealed

Have you ever wondered what everyone secretly fantasizes about? We anonymously polled our audience, and we’re spilling all the secrets today! We’re also doing a deep dive on all your fantasy questions....

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“Help Me See Where My Partner Is Coming From!” (Advice Episode)

“I just don’t understand where you’re coming from.” Have you ever been in the heat of an argument with your partner, and felt totally unable see their perspective on the issue? We put up a question box...

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Partner Having Penis Performance Problems? Here’s What To Do – And What Not...

“This, uh, isn’t working…” Most of us have experienced a partner having some performance issues in the bedroom, and feeling wildly confused about what to do. How do you react? What do you say? And...

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Smash Or Pass? We Try The Wildest Sex Tips You’ve Ever Heard (Volume 3)

We really went there… It’s time for another round of Smash or Pass! The series where we find the internet’s weirdest sex tips, try them out, and report back to you with all the details. We dug deep to...

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How To Get Your Partner To Open Up About Sex (Even If They’re Resistant)

If you’re a Pillow Talks listener, you’re probably on board with the idea of talking about sex openly. But what do you do if your partner is a lot more hesitant? In this episode, we’re going over why...

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Breaking Down a Text Fight

You’ve had a fight over text message with your partner, right? Most of us have! Maybe you sent a text to your partner that was a little too snarky, or maybe you read too much into a message. Odds are...

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